How to set up a Fuck Buddy relationship
Fuck Buddy Relationship
Let’s talk about how to set up an fuck buddy deal with your girl( no-strings attached). This type of relationship is becoming more and more popular in last few years. I have some amazing tips and tricks to share to you, so lets dive into it :
What Is a Fuck buddy relationship?
Its very simple, You keep an girl for sex purpose only. Fuck friends or as girl love to call it ” Fuck Buddy”
Average length of Fuck Buddy relationship : 1-6months.
It can be shorter and longer, but after some time girl will start looking from you for something more serious and if you don’t want to provide it she will move on. Lot’s of girls accept Fuck buddy of relationship hoping one day she will convert you to full time Boyfriend. And that’s totally normal and understandable. When that happens you simply find new fuck buddy.
This article we will separate into 2 things : How to set up an fuck buddy relationship, and maintaining an fuck buddy relationship. Both are equally important.
How to set up Fuck Buddy
Everything starts with first time you have sex.
Instead projecting lots of “long term relationship” signals (cuddle,pillow-talk,love-making, taking care of her…) you skip all of it and frame it as an Adventure. You should fulfill her fantasy. You should be her sex god! Fuck her good and she will be coming back for more. This is important step. Since fuck buddy relationship is around sex, its the main thing of your relationship, give it to her.
Make sure she cum’s. Fulfill her dreams with a time. Ask her what she never did and she wanted. Make those fantasies come true.
More and more girls today don’t want to complicate their life with serious boyfriends ( either they don’t have time or they are not ready for it), but they miss sex from relationships. And that’s exactly what you can provide – Sex with no complications – you should be her ideal Fuck buddy.
2) Be busy
Don’t get her used to see you more then 2x per week. Be busy, have life, date other girls if you want, but do not get her used to spend too much time with you. By spending too much time with her, you will be sending lots of relationship signals, and you will fall into Monogamous relationship zone. Girls in general do not like guys who are too “available”
3) Keep it Clean
Fuck Buddy relationship is relationship based on Sex an Sex only. You meet her for a coffee, tea, dinner and you have sex, after it she goes home. Everything more than that will send strong relationship signals, and it may complicate pure Fuck buddy relationship. Do not send too much “I want an relationship”
signals. Do not let her sleep over, take her on dates, etc… minimize
Keep it clean, keep it simple.
4) Relationship talk for setting up fuck buddy
Yes ,we guys do hate relationship talks, but this one you will have to do. At one point in time, somewhere in first 2-4 weeks, the time will come when she will start asking herself, who are we? Are we just having fun, or this is something more? This is an natural process in female mind, and every girl goes through it with every new guy. In her mind she has to place you in some box/category. She will come to you, and ask you what do you think, how do you see her, and your relationship. This is the moment of truth. This is the moment where you set up an fuck buddy relationship. This is the most crucial moment.
Sit her somewhere, and set up an fuck buddy relationship with her. There are lots of different ways you can set-it up, I will give you here one of them, that’s the easiest way to do it.
“Look, I have to be honest with you, because I am not sure what your expectations are and I don’t want to hurt you. Look, I really enjoy being with you, I love every moment we spend together, you are exactly girl I am looking for, but I have to be honest with you, I recently got out from long-term relationship and I am not ready for one more relationship Right now. Jumping from relationship to relationship is bad and not heathy, But that doesn’t mean I don’t want to see you, opposite I so want to see you, I want to be with you but I just don’t want us to be called ‘boyfriend/Girlfriend’. Don’t get me wrong, I would love to be your boyfriend, but I cannot play that role right now. So I wonder can we stay ‘friends’ like we are right now. I would really love that.”
Say it in a nice & smooth way like this and she will agree 100%. More honest and bold approaches and ways to set up an fuck buddy you can find inside my Life academy.
Make sure after this talk to have sex again. Let she goes home happy.
If you have done all 3 things correctly; fuck her good, be busy and had relationship talk with her, and you are having sex with her, it should all be good.
4) Get her used to 1-3 sessions per week
In first couple of months you have to get her used to see you 1-2x times per week. But this all depends on your lifestyle. It can be more or less. 2x per week is an optimal number to keep relationship going without much effort. We guys do not like to spend much time and energy on maintaining the relationship. We have better things to do.
It all comes back to “Be busy”. You would love to see her, but you have things to do. that is your mindset. Sometimes they will try to push to 4-5 times. Do not allow this.
Maintaining an fuck buddy relationship
Just as how much important is how to set up an fuck buddy relationship, its even more important not to do mistakes on maintaining it. Do it wrong way and you will loose girls really fast.
1) Do not cuddle after sex
One of the most crucial elements on fuck buddy relationships. There is an hormone in female body that’s enemy of fuck buddy relationships, and its called Oxytocin ( cuddle hormon). It gets released during sex and its purpose is to connect her with a partner (you). Did you notice girls like to cuddle after sex? that’s the reason. Most of hormone is released during orgasam. By allowing her to cuddle, she will start feeling more connected to you, and create an relationship with you in her mind and body. And this is bad for a fuck buddy relationship.
You do not want her to start falling in love with you. You do not want too much emotions involved between two of you. Ideal Fuck buddy relationship shouldn’t have any emotions, but just an good deal ” Let’s just fuck”.
2) Sex Positions are very important
One more way to prevent her getting attached to your emotionally is by choosing really careful what positions you use in sex with her. Some positions will create lots of emotional bond.
Positions with lots of skin to skin contact, and lots of eye contact will produce emotional bond. For example, missionary position.. etc.
To maintain good fuck buddy relationship where she is not that emotionally attached to you, use positions with minimum skin-to-skin contact & eye-eye contact, like doggy style, reverse cowgirl are perfect for sex.
You don’t have to be afraid that you will lose on quality of sex, all you have to do is use little bit of imagination and modification of regular sex positions.
Deep and strong eye contact while having sex can be bad as well. It will create deeper bond. Either avoid eye contact positions at all , or turn off light or blind-fold her. Be creative.
Remember, you do not want to create emotional attachment from your or her side.
3) Expect Relationship talk once a month
Part of the girls will accept this “fuck buddy” status of relationship, hoping they can upgrade you later on to full boyfriend mode, convert you to normal relationship.
While other girls will really like fuck buddy relationship, but will get emotionally attached to you, and unconsciously will start to push towards relationship. In both cases, you can expect these “relationship talks” in a period of a once a month. Like they “reboot” and forget everything you said few weeks ago.
Here you have to stay calm, and remind her that you like how things are and you do not want to be in one more relationship, and give her talk from beginning.
4) Be ready to replace her
You have to understand fuck buddy status is not permanent. It won’t stay forever. Girls are genetically programmed to search for that one guy who they will spend rest of their life with, after few months, maybe an year she will start asking for more from you or she will start looking for a proper boyfriend/husband. Fuck buddies come and go. On average they last 3-6months, Be ready to lose her and replace her with new ones.
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5) Let her fuck other guys or not?
Should your relationship be fully open or not? This is very personal question, that you have to answer it for yourself. Some guys are ok with it, some not. My rule is that after 2-3 weeks to discuss it and set some rules. Just bring up this topic and talk about it. Because this is fully related to topic of condoms. My personal experience ( and I had lots of fuck buddies); that if you fuck them good and regular, they have no need to look around for more sex.
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