Last night I had this “aha” moment, and I simply have to share it with you guys. As soon as I woke up today, I made myself a nice healthy smoothie, and started writing this email. I don’t know why, but I am starting to see things from game in different ways. Ways I never saw it before. This usually happens when you are reaching higher level of the game. I have no idea where this will take me. Sometimes I feel like Neo in Matrix, it goes on and on, there is no end.
Levels of Game
This graph I did one night at 2am. I couldn’t sleep, opened excel and did it.
This graph actually explains whole “game”
Let me explain you:
There are 2 basic elements in seduction.
Blue line: Comfort energy
Green Line: Sexual energy or “SE” later in text
To seduce woman you need 2 energies
The more time you spend with a girl the more comfort you will have. If I remember correctly from school x=1
(I am sure Math guys will correct me here) heh, please do.
as you can see on a Graph, Comfort grown on a steady line.. While SE is different. Its more of a spike…Girl will start feeling SE with you, and it will reach top, if you don’t act on it, it drops down. And it very hard to recover. Almost impossible. To pump SE you use Dirty talk and Kino, ( verbal and non verbal escalation).
If you do those 2 together, a very powerful weapon she will start feeling SE, she will start feeling more and more horny. She will start thinking about going dirty with you. Now, Look at the graph for a moment, and notice place where Comfort and SE meet.
In this point you have both things on level where they have to be! Action time. This is where F-close happens.
Now, you will ask me time, after how much time this happens?
This varies from Player to player, I remember when I was in my first years of game, it took me 2-3 hours to get some SE from a girl.
Nowadays with good Direct game, and Dirty talk you can get to that point in 15-30min. I would say for an average player who is just starting with game, he can reach that point in 1h if he uses right techniques.
But lots of guys out there play only comfort game. Comfort game = let’s be friends game!
Comfort & connection = friendship
So if you build friendship with a girl, that’s how she will see you. Don’t blame her, blame yourself for installing friendship into her mind. On other side if you create lots of SE and S tension, she would see you as a someone to bang. It’s that simple
Let’s go back to graph, damn, I feel I can write PHD around this graph
Let’s analyze it more
Why SE is a spike?
Its because their stupid ego…
See, girl gets all aroused, but you don’t do anything about it, you don’t act on it. If you look from girls point of view, she thinks its all clear, she thinks you can see it that she is ready to be taken, and you don’t do anything about it. So she feels REJECTED. She feels you don’t want her, as if you were only playing games with her. Game over.
She is rejected, you don’t wan’t to F her..
SE drops down to zero, and the most f-up part goes here. Guy usually stays there talking to her hoping he can recover situation, and continue to build more Comfort… results is 2nd point, where Comfort reaches Max, and SE is on floor, result is ” oh, no let’s just be friends.
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