My frame of mind ( attitude) on approaching changed and I immediately saw an increase in my results and response from the women. It went from Let’s try to have sex with her to “Let’s make her life better”. Let’s see can we create some amazing fun together. Let’s enjoy this world, this night together. Let me place a smile on her face. Let’s create an adventure that we both will enjoy.
What is she getting out from it? Remember that for them sex is more a hassle than fun. Some girls really love sex, but most are just using it to get something in life. She is giving you sex so she can get something back. What do you my friend give in return for sex?
Their failing with girls wasn’t because they were bad with girls, but it was a symptom of a bigger problem they had. Problem that reflects in every area of life. In life you always have to look behind the surface. Everything in life has multiple layers.
Sex is very intimate and physical activity. She has to be really comfortable with someone to let him go inside her body. That comfort is crucial. With your touching during conversation you are building this necessary comfort. You are sending signals to her unconscious mind : his touch feels good, its ok to be touched by him, I am comfortable with him touching my body.
At some point in our life we have setup a date with a girl and she has either cancelled on the last minute or she didn’t even show up! And even though this happens rarely, if we know how to deal with it the right way we can recover the situation and the girl easily…